Pat and I send our most sincere condolences for your loss of Kara. We understand there is a hurt in your life at the moment that will take a long time to heal. But, you are a strong guy and Kara would insist that you take charge and move on while remembering all the good things of your life together.
You and Kara have made a lifetime of friends. Pat, myself and and all the others are counting on you to make the most of the rest of you life.